%A NIM.: 19203012014 Finza Khasif Ghifarani, S.H.
%O Pembimbing: Dr. Fathorrahman, S.AG., M.SI.
%T KONSEP KESALINGAN DALAM PERNIKAHAN:
STUDI MASYARAKAT DESA NGULING KABUPATEN
PASURUAN
%X Nguling is one of the villages in Pasuruan Regency located in the
easternmost part and borders Probolinggo Regency. Trading has become the
livelihood of most Nguling community. In addition to the skill factor, it is chosen
by most people since Nguling Village location is considered highly strategic for
trading. Nguling Village is located near to the government center of Nguling
District, such as market, community health center, schools, district office, village
offices, police office, and so forth. Most people in Nguling Village and its
surroundings take advantage of these opportunities to be productive, such as being
traders in the conventional markets, sellers at schools, teachers at schools, teachers
at Quran Learning Center (TPQ) and Islamic Basic Education (Madrasah Diniyah),
or staff of community health center, etc. Approximately, 60% of married couples,
both husband and wife, in Nguling Village generate their own income, either as
entrepreneurs or private employees. It is uncommon to occur in a household where
one of the husbands or wives is unemployed since their ancestors had taught that
men and women should be financially independent so they will not rely on others'
income.
This study focuses on, first, why Nguling Village communities are aware to
apply the concept of mubādalah (interdependence) in their marital relationship;
and second, how the concept of mubādalah is manifested in the Nguling Village
community. This study applies the theory of Islamic gender equality and the
concept of mubādalah by Faqihuddin Abdul Kodir and is categorized as a field
study by employing an ethnographic approach.
The results indicated that the implementation of mubādalah was relied on
several factors, first, most people in Nguling Village come from the middle to lower
class; and second, some people in Nguling Village applied this concept not only
due to financial deficiency but also independence and awareness that women should
be financially independent even though their husbands were capable of fulfilling
household needs. The concept of mubādalah is manifested in three aspects, i.e.,
livelihood, domestic roles in the family, and parenting patterns. The application of
mubādalah in Nguling Village was considered in line with the concept of
mubādalah introduced by Faqihuddin Abdul Qodir, stating that livelihood,
domestic roles, sexual relations, and parenting patterns constitute shared duties and
responsibilities of husband and wife based on the principle of zawaj (marriage) and
mu'asyaroh bil ma'ruf (good treatment among others) since marriage is a
partnership between two individuals with equal position.
%K pernikahan; suami istri; gender; mubadalah
%D 2021
%I UIN SUNAN KALIJAGA YOGYAKARTA
%L digilib48886