%0 Thesis
%9 Masters
%A Nurmalisa Dara Vonna, NIM.: 21200011033
%B PASCASAJANA
%D 2023
%F digilib:61425
%I UIN SUNAN KALIJAGA YOGYAKARTA
%K Rumah Tangga, Trust Issue, Pasangan Suami Istri
%P 133
%T PEMAAFAN DALAM PENYELESAIAN TRUST ISSUE PADA PASANGAN SUAMI ISTRI
%U https://digilib.uin-suka.ac.id/id/eprint/61425/
%X One of the problems in households in Indonesia is the high divorce rate, the cause of which is a trust issue The attitude of difficulty trusting and rarely being together with a partner is caused by being often lied to and disappointed, rarely communicating in depth, listening more to others, being more dominant towards others, than one's own partner, making the perception of the partner feel less trusting. Many couples decide to divorce because they are unable to deal with various problems, such as lack of trust and loss of trust. The formulation of the problem in this thesis research is divided into three, first, what are the values of forgiveness in resolving trust issues in married couples, second, what are the patterns and forms of forgiveness in resolving trust issues in married couples, third, can forgiveness solve trust issue problems in married couples? Research subjects were selected by purposive sampling technique, with the first criterion, ages 19 to 25 years, the second was married, then divorced and remarried. The findings obtained in this study are three, namely the values of forgiveness in resolving trust issues in married couples, namely the value of peace, the value of affection which has an impact on reducing negative emotions, and can make positive emotional changes, then the emergence of positive motivation to be able to forgive others and life becomes more peaceful and comfortable. In addition, in forgiveness there is a value of empathy, compassion which causes the loss of resentment. There are four forms of forgiveness in resolving trust issues in married couples, namely: hollow forgiveness, silent forgiveness, total forgiveness and zero forgiveness. And third, forgiveness in resolving trust issues in married couples is divided into four stages, namely: disclosure phase, decision phase, action phase, and deepening phase.
%Z Pembimbing: Dr. Ramadhanita Mustika Sari