relation: https://digilib.uin-suka.ac.id/id/eprint/68231/
title: REKONSTRUKSI KONSEP KETAHANAN KELUARGA DALAM PERNIKAHAN PERJODOHAN (STUDI PASANGAN MUDA DI WILAYAH JAKARTA)
creator: Muhammad Ikhsan Setiaji, S.H., NIM.: 22203011010
subject: 346.01 Hukum Keluarga - Hukum Pernikahan
description: Nowadays, parents tend to give leeway to their children in choosing potential  partners. On the other hand, children also have their own preference criteria in  choosing a potential partner. The author found several young couples in Jakarta  who had arranged marriages. They can survive for years without any divorce. Their  family has also fulfilled the aspects that are benchmarks for a family to be  considered to have a high level of resilience.  The author is interested in researching what factors contribute to the  occurrence of arranged marriages among young people in Jakarta, how they run  their households so they can survive, and what Maqasid al-Usrah views on the  resilience of their families. This type of research is empirical research with  qualitative methods. This research is descriptive analytical and uses a  phenomenological sociological approach. The author used the family strenght  concept by Nick Stinnet and John DeFrain, as well as the Maqasid al-Usrah by  Jamaluddin 'Athiyyah. The primary data consists of statements from four arranged  marriage couples living in Jakarta. Secondary data consists of books, theses, articles  from scientific journals, and other sources related to the theme.  The author concludes that the factors behind the occurrence of arranged  marriages among young people in Jakarta are parental factors. The parents have a  sense of responsibility for their child's future so they want the best partner for them.  The interviewees also accepted the arranged marriage for relatively the same  reasons, they belief that the prospective partner approved by their parents was the  best. In running their households, they have six criteria consisting of 28 components  which are indicators that a family can be said to have resilience. Of the 28  components, there are several components that are less significant in one of the  interviewee's families. However, this does not reduce the resilience and harmony  of their family. Family resilience is greatly influenced by mental readiness, family  background and education. All components contained in the resource person's  concept of family resilience are in accordance with the Maqasid al-Usrah by  Jamaluddin 'Athiyyah. Advice for parents who match their children; should  consider the impact of arranged marriages on children because not all children can  accept and understand the good intentions of their parents. Therefore, the readiness  and mental maturity of children is something that must be prepared long before  planning an arranged marriage, even from a relatively young age. For married  couples who marry because they are arranged; they should enrich themselves and  their families with the family resilience criteria in this research to create family  resilience in the household. For unmarried youth; they should seek as much  knowledge as possible about marriage and the dynamics of building a household.  This is important to prevent undesirable things after the marriage ceremony.
date: 2024-07-17
type: Thesis
type: NonPeerReviewed
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language: id
identifier: https://digilib.uin-suka.ac.id/id/eprint/68231/1/22203011010_BAB-I_IV-atau-V_DAFTAR-PUSTAKA.pdf
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language: id
identifier: https://digilib.uin-suka.ac.id/id/eprint/68231/2/22203011010_BAB-II_sampai_SEBELUM-BAB-TERAKHIR.pdf
identifier:   Muhammad Ikhsan Setiaji, S.H., NIM.: 22203011010  (2024) REKONSTRUKSI KONSEP KETAHANAN KELUARGA DALAM PERNIKAHAN PERJODOHAN (STUDI PASANGAN MUDA DI WILAYAH JAKARTA).  Masters thesis, UIN SUNAN KALIJAGA YOGYAKARTA.