TY  - THES
N1  - Dr. Hj. Dwi Ratnasari, M.Ag.
ID  - digilib70212
UR  - https://digilib.uin-suka.ac.id/id/eprint/70212/
A1  - Sarah Dina, NIM.: 22204012059
Y1  - 2024/09/13/
N2  - Cases of multidimensional crises such as sexual abuse, drugs and other crimes are
proof of how dry moral values are in children's souls. Consistent moral development really
needs to be internalized by parents, especially father figures, in order to protect children
from deviant actions. However, often the stigma regarding fathering is only seen as
protecting the family's finances, which actually has the impact of narrowing the essence of
the relationship between father and child. In fact, the figure of the father (fathering) has an
important influence on the child's growth and development process, including in the
formation of the child's morals. Therefore, this research aims to: (1) Analyzing the fathering
parenting pattern in forming children's morals from a hadith perspective in Batak
Mandailing ethnic families, (2) Analyzing the fathering parenting model in forming
children's morals in Mandailing Batak ethnic families, (3) Analyzing the obstacles and
solutions to implementing fathering parenting patterns in the formation children's morals
in Mandailing Batak families.
This research uses a qualitative type of research using a phenomenologicalanthropological
approach, the target analysis is fathering figures in implementing parenting
patterns for children in Mandailing Batak families. Data collection techniques use
interviews, observation and documentation. Checking the validity of the data uses
triangulation. Meanwhile, data analysis techniques go through the stages of data
condensation, data presentation, drawing conclusions and verification.
The results of this research show that: (1) Fathering parenting patterns in the
formation of children's morals from a hadith perspective in Mandailing Batak families have
been realized through several parenting methods associated with hadiths, such as: a.
Habituation method; getting children used to praying in congregation, learning to recite the
Koran, fasting, and getting children used to eating by saying the name of Allah, b.
Exemplary method; foster children to be honest and maintain cleanliness, c. Motivating
methods; motivating children to study, d. Method of giving advice; advise children not to
fall into free association, e. Method of giving punishment; impose educational or educative
punishments if the child makes a mistake. (2) The model of fathering parenting in the
formation of children's morals in Mandailing Batak families in Deli Serdang Regency, in
the form of: "authoritative" parenting, namely a parenting pattern that prioritizes two-way
communication between parents and children. Mandailing Batak ethnic fathers are
generally more firm and strict, but still adapt to the child's needs. (3) Obstacles and
solutions to implementing the fathering parenting style in forming children's morals in
Mandailing Batak families in Deli Serdang Regency, namely: a. constraint; fading Batak
philosophy in children and the negative impact of technology on children's morals, b.
Solution; Mandailing Batak ethnic fathers should apply the ideal parenting model in
accordance with the times.
Keywords: Parenting Patterns, Fathering, Morals, Hadith.
PB  - UIN SUNAN KALIJAGA YOGYAKARTA
KW  - Parenting Patterns
KW  -  Fathering
KW  -  Morals
KW  -  Hadith.
M1  - masters
TI  - POLA ASUH FATHERING DALAM PEMBENTUKAN
AKHLAK ANAK PERSPEKTIF HADIST: STUDI PADA
KELUARGA ETNIK BATAK MANDAILING
AV  - restricted
EP  - 224
ER  -