eprintid: 71350 rev_number: 10 eprint_status: archive userid: 12460 dir: disk0/00/07/13/50 datestamp: 2025-06-16 03:56:48 lastmod: 2025-06-16 03:56:48 status_changed: 2025-06-16 03:56:48 type: thesis metadata_visibility: show contact_email: muh.khabib@uin-suka.ac.id creators_name: Rahma Albia, S.H, NIM.: 23203011129 title: KOMUNIKASI DAN EMOSI DALAM KONFLIK KELUARGA AKIBAT TRADISI TEMTEMAN DI DUKUH PESALAKAN DESA MINDAKA KECAMATAN TARUB KABUPATEN TEGAL ispublished: pub subjects: 346.01 divisions: ilmu_sya full_text_status: restricted keywords: Temteman, Konflik Keluarga, Resolusi Konflik note: Dr. Ahmad Bunyan Wahib, M.Ag., M.A. abstract: This research focuses on family conflicts arising from the practice of the temteman tradition in wedding celebrations in Dukuh Pesalakan, Mindaka Village, Tarub Sub-district, Tegal Regency. The temteman tradition is a form of voluntary gift given by the community to the organizer of the celebration that contains social obligations in the form of reciprocity. The imbalance of gender roles, economic burden, and lack of communication between couples, especially husbands and wives, often trigger household conflicts when the return of temteman is done without mutual agreement. This study starts from two main questions, why does the practice of temteman tradition trigger conflict in the family? and how do couples resolve conflicts arising from the practice? The research method used in this study is qualitative with an anthropological approach through field research methods, namely, observation, interviews, and documentation. The data were analyzed descriptively-analytically using conflict resolution theory to understand how couples respond to and resolve conflicts that arise. The results showed that family conflicts were triggered by the wife's dominance in managing friends without the husband's involvement, resulting in open and closed conflicts. Effective conflict resolution strategies involve open communication skills and emotional management in building a mutual settlement agreement. This study also concludes that communication and emotional intelligence of couples are the main keys in responding to conflict due to the practice of temteman tradition, and recommends strengthening joint roles in the practice of tradition so that it does not become a burden on family relationships date: 2025-05-05 date_type: published pages: 162 institution: UIN SUNAN KALIJAGA YOGYAKARTA department: FAKULTAS SYARIAH DAN HUKUM thesis_type: masters thesis_name: other citation: Rahma Albia, S.H, NIM.: 23203011129 (2025) KOMUNIKASI DAN EMOSI DALAM KONFLIK KELUARGA AKIBAT TRADISI TEMTEMAN DI DUKUH PESALAKAN DESA MINDAKA KECAMATAN TARUB KABUPATEN TEGAL. Masters thesis, UIN SUNAN KALIJAGA YOGYAKARTA. document_url: https://digilib.uin-suka.ac.id/id/eprint/71350/1/23203011129_BAB-I_IV-atau-V_DAFTAR-PUSTAKA.pdf document_url: https://digilib.uin-suka.ac.id/id/eprint/71350/2/23203011129_BAB-II_sampai_SEBELUM-BAB-TERAKHIR.pdf